What is a chapstick lesbian?

A chapstick lesbian is a term used to describe a lesbian who does not fit into the stereotypical image of a feminine lesbian. They are often more gender-neutral in their presentation and may not conform to traditional gender roles. The term "chapstick lesbian" derives from the idea that they are more casual or low-maintenance in their style, compared to the more feminine stereotype of a lipstick lesbian.

Chapstick lesbians may feel more comfortable in casual clothing, have shorter haircuts, and prefer a more androgynous look. They may also be more focused on personality and compatibility rather than traditional gender norms in their relationships.

Overall, being a chapstick lesbian is about self-expression and embracing one's own unique identity, separate from societal expectations of how a lesbian should look or act.